Many mothers suffer from guilt when they are forced to make decisions about them themselves, such as return to work, or to start a new job, and to devote the time required for them to the attention of their lives daily, Bdrasthen and the allocation of time for a life partner. Might as well blame themselves if some mothers who wore a scream at their children or have been forced to delay for some time to return the child from the nursery or preoccupation with their needs away from the baby.
And return the feelings and emotions to the culture of the society in which we live, and who dictates the mothers behavioral patterns of certain everything related to child-rearing and the relationship with them, society is demanding mother to contain her and not to yell at him and sit in his company and attention to every nook and cranny of the requirements and needs.
In short, the mother's claim to be a complete and perfect, something that can not be achieved.
So, what to do?
First of all you need to examine your thoughts and think about any kind of "mothers" You should be.
After making sure you choose the right things and taken the right decisions, you take responsibility for your steps and the consequent results. If you decided to concern yourself and your future (what this entails difficulties) Fbasttaatk that Tthmla responsibility and Being convinced of the decision. Remember! If you are convinced Baqraratk, this feeling is transmitted to your children also broadcast across the message that you did not Taatnazle about your desires and your will, that the mother is also a woman.
You should know full well that it is not able to be a perfect and complete, but you are a human being of flesh and blood, and then fall feeling of anger and guilt, dramatically.
And return the feelings and emotions to the culture of the society in which we live, and who dictates the mothers behavioral patterns of certain everything related to child-rearing and the relationship with them, society is demanding mother to contain her and not to yell at him and sit in his company and attention to every nook and cranny of the requirements and needs.
In short, the mother's claim to be a complete and perfect, something that can not be achieved.
So, what to do?
First of all you need to examine your thoughts and think about any kind of "mothers" You should be.
After making sure you choose the right things and taken the right decisions, you take responsibility for your steps and the consequent results. If you decided to concern yourself and your future (what this entails difficulties) Fbasttaatk that Tthmla responsibility and Being convinced of the decision. Remember! If you are convinced Baqraratk, this feeling is transmitted to your children also broadcast across the message that you did not Taatnazle about your desires and your will, that the mother is also a woman.
You should know full well that it is not able to be a perfect and complete, but you are a human being of flesh and blood, and then fall feeling of anger and guilt, dramatically.